Step-by-Step: How to Get a Restraining Order in San Francisco (2025)

Overview

If you live in San Francisco and are experiencing abuse, harassment, threats, or stalking, you can seek legal protection through a Restraining Order.
California law provides several types of protection orders depending on your relationship to the person harming you. This guide explains how to file, what to expect, and where to get free legal and emotional support in San Francisco.

1️⃣ Know Which Type of Restraining Order You Need

All forms are standardized statewide and available from the California Courts site:
📄 California Courts – Restraining Order Forms

2️⃣ Where to File in San Francisco

All restraining orders for residents of the city are filed through the San Francisco Superior Court – Family Law Division.

Main Courthouse
📍 400 McAllister Street, Room 207, San Francisco, CA 94102
☎️ (415) 551-3805 (Family Law Clerk)
🕘 Monday–Friday, 8:30 AM – 4:00 PM

If your case involves a non-family member (civil harassment, stalking, workplace violence), it’s still handled in the same courthouse under the Civil Division.

For after-hours emergencies, contact any San Francisco Police Department station; a duty judge can issue an emergency order (EPO) through law enforcement 24/7.

3️⃣ Get the Forms and Fill Them Out

• Pick up packets from Room 207 of the courthouse or download online.

• Forms include the petition, notice of hearing, CLETS information, and temporary order request.

• When filling out, include:

  • Dates/times of abuse or threats

  • Type of harm (physical, emotional, stalking, harassment)

  • Details of relationship or living situation

  • Copies of texts, photos, screenshots, or witness names

💡 If English is not your first language, the court offers free interpreters for restraining order hearings — request one when you file.

4️⃣ Ask for a Temporary Restraining Order (TRO)

You can ask the judge to issue a Temporary Restraining Order the same day you file.

A TRO can order:

• No contact (direct or indirect)

• Stay-away distances from your home, job, or children’s school

• Removal of firearms

• Temporary custody of children (DVRO only)

If the judge believes there’s an immediate danger, the TRO will be granted right away and remain in effect until your hearing — usually within 2–3 weeks.

5️⃣ Service of Process

Your restraining order becomes enforceable only after service on the respondent.

• The San Francisco Sheriff’s Department – Civil Division serves restraining orders for free.
  📍 850 Bryant Street, Room 456, San Francisco, CA 94103
  ☎️ (415) 553-1441 • 🌐 sfsheriff.com

• Provide them with:

  • A copy of your TRO

  • The respondent’s address or workplace

  • Any details to help locate them

You cannot serve the papers yourself — the sheriff or a registered process server must do it.

6️⃣ The Hearing (Final Order)

• The hearing will be held at the Civic Center Courthouse, usually within 2–3 weeks after your TRO.

• Both sides may testify and present evidence.

• Bring multiple copies of:

  • Police or incident reports

  • Medical records

  • Photos or videos

  • Texts, emails, social media messages

  • Witnesses (if available)

If the judge grants the restraining order, it will generally last up to 5 years (for DVROs) or 3 years (for CHOs).

7️⃣ After the Order — Enforcement and Renewal

• Always keep a certified copy of your order with you and at your workplace or child’s school.

• The San Francisco Police Department and all law enforcement can confirm your order via the California Law Enforcement Telecommunications System (CLETS).

• If violated, call 911 — violations are criminal offenses under Penal Code § 273.6.

• Before it expires, you can request an extension (Form DV-700 or CH-700).

🧾 Evidence Checklist

✅ Detailed written statement / timeline of incidents
✅ Police reports or 911 logs
✅ Photos or videos of injuries or property damage
✅ Text messages, voicemails, or emails
✅ Witness declarations
✅ Prior restraining orders or court documents
✅ Proof of relationship or shared residence (for DVROs)

💬 San Francisco Legal & Survivor Resources

⏱ Typical Timeline (San Francisco)

❓ FAQs

Is there a fee to file a restraining order in San Francisco?
No. Filing is free for domestic violence, stalking, and civil harassment orders.

Do I need a lawyer?
No, but organizations like CROC, APILO, or Legal Aid at Work can help at no cost.

Can I e-file my restraining order?
San Francisco allows limited e-filing for civil harassment cases, but DVROs generally require in-person filing.

Can the judge order the abuser to move out?
Yes — if you share a home, you can request a move-out order for your safety.

What if English isn’t my first language?
Ask for a court interpreter when filing — it’s free for DVRO cases.

⚠️ Final Safety Tips

• Always call 911 if you’re in danger or your order is violated.

• For confidential advice or shelter, contact:

  • La Casa de las Madres: (877) 503-1850

  • WOMAN, Inc.: (877) 384-3578

• Use a safe computer or phone if possible, and clear your browser history after viewing this page.

• Keep your paperwork and copies of your order in a secure location.

You have the right to be safe — and in San Francisco, multiple organizations are ready to stand beside you every step of the way.