Step-by-Step: How to Get a Restraining Order in Charlotte (2025)

Overview

In North Carolina, restraining orders for domestic violence are called Domestic Violence Protective Orders (DVPOs) — sometimes referred to as 50B Orders (from Chapter 50B of the NC General Statutes).

If the abuser is not a partner, spouse, or household member, you can instead apply for a Civil No-Contact Order (50C Order) for stalking or harassment.

This guide explains how survivors in Charlotte / Mecklenburg County can file, what happens next, and where to find free support.

1️⃣ Types of Protective Orders in North Carolina

Both are filed in Mecklenburg County Civil Court at the main courthouse.

📚 Statute: N.C. Gen. Stat. Chapter 50B

2️⃣ Where to File in Charlotte

Mecklenburg County Courthouse (Civil Division)
📍 832 East 4th Street, Charlotte, NC 28202
📞 (704) 686-0400
🕘 Hours: Monday–Friday, 8:30 AM – 4:30 PM

Domestic Violence Intake Center (DVIC)
Located inside the courthouse, Room 1400 (1st Floor) — a one-stop center for filing DVPOs with the help of advocates.

You can also begin paperwork online and then appear in person to finalize your petition.

If the courthouse is closed, you may contact a magistrate through local law enforcement to request an after-hours emergency order.

3️⃣ Fill Out the Petition & Forms

You’ll complete the following forms (available at the courthouse or online):

• AOC-CV-303: Complaint and Motion for Domestic Violence Protective Order

• AOC-CV-314: Ex Parte / Temporary Order (if urgent)

• AOC-CV-315: Final DVPO (issued by the judge at hearing)

Forms are free and also downloadable:
👉 NC Judicial Branch – Domestic Violence Forms

When filling out:

• Describe specific incidents (dates, times, threats, injuries, weapons).

• Request the protections you need: no contact, move-out order, custody of children, temporary possession of a residence, or firearm surrender.

• Include address confidentiality if you fear the respondent finding you.

💡 Advocates at the DVIC or the Safe Alliance can help complete forms.

4️⃣ Request an Emergency (Ex Parte) Order

If you are in immediate danger, ask for an Ex Parte Temporary DVPO.
A judge can review your petition the same day — the respondent is not notified beforehand.

If granted:

• It takes effect immediately once signed by the judge.

• It usually lasts up to 10 days until the full hearing.

5️⃣ Serve the Respondent

Your restraining order becomes enforceable only after it’s served.

• The Mecklenburg County Sheriff’s Office Civil Process Division will deliver (“serve”) the paperwork.

• You don’t need to pay or serve the respondent yourself.

• Service usually takes 1–3 days.

📍 Sheriff’s Civil Process Office
700 East 4th Street, Charlotte, NC 28202
📞 (704) 336-2543
🌐 mecksheriff.com

6️⃣ Attend the Court Hearing (Final DVPO)

• The final hearing is typically scheduled within 10 days of the temporary order.

• Both you and the respondent can appear before a District Court judge.

Bring:

• Copy of your petition

• Police reports / 911 logs

• Photos, texts, emails, or call records

• Medical documents or witness statements

• Any prior protective orders

The judge will decide whether to grant a Final Domestic Violence Protective Order, which usually lasts up to 1 year and can include custody, child support, and firearms restrictions.

7️⃣ Enforcement & Renewal

Once granted:

• Keep certified copies with you, at work, and at your child’s school.

• Law enforcement across North Carolina can verify your order via the NC Domestic Violence Protective Order Registry.

• If the respondent violates the order, call 911 immediately — violation is a criminal offense.

• You can request renewal before the expiration date (Form AOC-CV-313).

🧾 Evidence Checklist

✅ Detailed written incident list
✅ Police/incident reports
✅ Photos/videos of injuries or damage
✅ Text messages, emails, social media messages
✅ Witness statements or letters
✅ Proof of relationship / cohabitation (for DVPOs)
✅ Medical records, restraining order history

💬 Local Charlotte Resources

⏱ Typical Timeline (Charlotte)

❓ FAQs

Do I need a police report to get a DVPO?
No — you can file based solely on your testimony. A police report helps but isn’t required.

Is there a filing fee?
No. Domestic violence and 50C orders are free to file.

Can the judge order the abuser to leave my home?
Yes — if you share a residence, the judge can grant you exclusive possession.

Can the order cover my children?
Yes. You can request temporary custody and child support as part of your DVPO.

What happens if the respondent violates the order?
It’s a criminal offense. Call 911 or contact CMPD immediately.

⚠️ Final Safety Advice

If you feel unsafe at any time:

• Call 911 or the Safe Alliance Hotline (980-771-4673).

• Use a safe phone or device, and clear your browsing history if necessary.

• Tell trusted friends, neighbors, or your workplace security about your order.

You do not have to face this process alone — advocates at the courthouse and community partners are trained to guide you every step of the way.