Consultation Questions to Ask Your Domestic Violence Lawyer
Meeting a domestic violence lawyer can feel overwhelming. Use this checklist of key questions to help you understand their experience, approach, fees, and support options — and make the best decision for your safety.
📝 Consultation Questions Checklist for Hiring a Domestic Violence Lawyer in Ontario
✅ Questions to Ask
🟢 About Their Experience
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How many domestic violence cases have you handled?
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Have you worked on cases similar to mine (e.g., involving children, urgent protection orders)?
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What were the outcomes in those cases?
🟢 About Safety and Protection
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How quickly can you help me obtain a restraining order or other protective measures?
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What steps can we take immediately to ensure my (and my children’s) safety?
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How do you approach high-risk situations?
🟢 About Communication
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How will we stay in touch (phone, email, in person)?
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How often will you update me on my case?
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Will I be able to contact you directly if I have urgent questions or safety concerns?
🟢 About Fees
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What are your fees, and how do you bill (hourly, flat fee, retainer)?
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Do you accept Legal Aid Ontario certificates?
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Are there any additional costs I should expect?
🟢 About Local Knowledge and Resources
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Are you familiar with Ontario’s family courts and domestic violence procedures?
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Do you work with local shelters or support services?
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Can you help connect me to counseling, housing, or financial support resources?
🟢 Final Questions
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What do you think are the biggest challenges in my case?
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What should I do right now to protect myself before we start?
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Why do you think you’re the right lawyer for me?
🌷 Gentle Reminder
You deserve a lawyer who listens to you, answers your questions with patience, and makes you feel safe and supported.
Trust your instincts during this conversation. If something doesn’t feel right, it’s okay to keep looking until you find the best fit for your needs.
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