When one parent is charged with domestic assault or other related offences, child custody and access decisions become more complex. The courts in Ontario are required to prioritize the child’s best interests and safety—especially when domestic violence is involved.

This post explains what happens to parenting time (access) and decision-making (custody) while a domestic violence case is active.

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Not necessarily. Being charged with domestic violence does not automatically end parenting time, but it does trigger greater scrutiny by the courts.

The outcome depends on:

• The nature of the allegations

• Whether the children were present or exposed

• The accused’s past behavior

• Bail or release conditions

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When the accused is released on bail, conditions may include:

• No contact with the other parent

• No contact with the children, especially if they witnessed abuse

• No return to the family home

These conditions can limit or prevent parenting time until reviewed by a family court judge.

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Parenting arrangements may be decided by:

• Family Court, through a motion or temporary order

• Criminal Court, through bail conditions

• CAS (Children’s Aid Society) involvement, if child protection concerns exist

Sometimes, Family Court and Criminal Court overlap—each may issue different but legally binding restrictions.

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Yes. If there’s a safety concern but parenting time is still possible, courts may order:

• Supervised access at a neutral location

• Third-party supervision (e.g. a family member)

• Virtual access through phone or video calls

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In Ontario, "custody" is now called "decision-making responsibility". Courts may:

• Suspend or limit the abusive parent’s authority

• Give the non-abusive parent sole decision-making

• Order that both parents consult but only one makes final decisions

💡 Courts consider past abuse as a significant factor in determining a parent’s ability to act in the child’s best interests.

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• ✅ Bail conditions may limit or suspend contact with children

• ✅ Courts focus on the child’s safety and emotional well-being

• ✅ Family court can issue temporary custody/access orders

• ✅ Supervised visits or no access may be ordered in serious cases

• ✅ The abusive parent may lose decision-making rights

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• Family Law Information Centre (FLIC) – Free advice at Ontario courthouses

• Legal Aid Ontario – 1-800-668-8258

• Children’s Aid Society – If involved, work with your assigned caseworker

• Office of the Children’s Lawyer (OCL) – May be appointed to represent the child

• Assaulted Women’s Helpline – 1-866-863-0511

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Not automatically. However, a domestic violence charge is taken very seriously by the family court. A judge must consider the abuse when deciding on decision-making responsibility (formerly custody) and is likely to put orders in place that limit the abusive parent's ability to make decisions, at least temporarily. The children's safety and well-being are the only priority.

Criminal bail conditions, such as a "no-contact" order with the other parent or children, override any existing family court order. The accused parent must follow the criminal court's conditions. They will need to go to family court to ask for the parenting arrangements to be clarified or changed in a way that does not violate their bail.

Supervised access means the entire visit between the parent and child is monitored by a supervisor. Supervised exchange means only the pick-up and drop-off are monitored by a supervisor to ensure there is no contact or conflict between the parents; the visit itself is unsupervised.

Yes, absolutely. The family court and criminal court are separate. You can (and should) seek a restraining order and an order for exclusive possession of the home in family court, regardless of what happens in the criminal case. The standard of proof is different, and the family court's main focus is ensuring your and your children's future safety.

It is very rare for children to testify in family court. Instead, a judge may get information about the children's views and needs through a neutral third party, such as the Office of the Children's Lawyer (OCL) or a social worker who can conduct an assessment.

It is critical to get legal advice. You can contact Legal Aid Ontario to see if you qualify for a free lawyer. You can also get support and referrals from your local women's shelter or the Assaulted Women's Helpline (1-866-863-0511).