Paul H. Townsend

Paul H. Townsend

Google Rating

4.4(79 reviews)

  • Townsend, Tomaio & Newmark, L.L.C. - 100 South Jefferson Road Suite 200, Townsend, Tomaio & Newmark, L.L.C. - 21 Main Street, 100 South Jefferson Road Suite 200 Whippany, NJ 07981
  • +1-973-539-0075
  • No email available
Family Law, Victims’ Rights, Criminal Law

About:

As a founding partner of Townsend, Tomaio & Newmark, Paul Townsend brings hands-on involvement and dedication to every aspect of his divorce and family law practice. He works tirelessly to ensure that his clients not only survive but thrive before, during and after their work together through his honesty, directness, and personal compassion for his clients and their families. Paul is uniquely qualified to understand and work through the emotional pain of divorce with his clients because he has been through divorce in his own life; his work is deeply personal to him in this way. When clients feel as though they are losing control of their lives, he is there to understand their concerns and help them weather the storm that is divorce. He's an attorney who has the professional expertise and the personal connection to the experience of divorce that is essential to getting clients through this difficult time. Paul has been Certified by the Supreme Court of New Jersey as Matrimonial Law attorney, a distinction that only two percent of his peers have also received. He has the honor of having been selected to the New Jersey Super Lawyers list for over fifteen consecutive years. Paul was awarded a Juris Doctorate in 1984 from the Ohio Northern University School of Law, and received his undergraduate degree from Albright College. He's admitted to practice in the state of NJ and the District Court of NJ. Paul involves his clients in every aspect of their case, knowing that they are intelligent people who deserve to know all of the facts so that they can come to a decision on the best course of action for themselves and their families. A client will not be told what the course of action is; Paul will discuss all options with his clients, and they will make those decisions together. Working with Paul Townsend is an experience based around the tenets of honesty, personal connection, expertise, and deep-seated compassion.

Jurisdiction:New Jersey, U.S. District Court, District of New Jersey

Practice Area

Family Law

Handles divorce, custody, parenting time, and support with DV-informed safety planning, temporary orders, safe exchanges, discovery protections, and long-term financial stability.

Victims’ Rights

Explains survivor rights in criminal cases, including notices, attendance, restitution, privacy, protection orders, and input at bail, plea, sentencing, and post-conviction hearings.

Criminal Law

Guides reporting, evidence, bail conditions, no-contact orders, prosecutions or defenses, and record sealing, centering survivor safety and informed participation across the criminal process.

Languages

English

Fees

Free Consultation

Education

J.D.
Ohio Northern University
1984

Awards

Super Lawyer
Super Lawyers
2013
Super Lawyer
Super Lawyers
2012
Super Lawyer
Super Lawyers
2006
Super Lawyer
Super Lawyers
2016
Super Lawyer
Super Lawyers
2005
Super Lawyer
Super Lawyers
2014
Super Lawyer
Super Lawyers
2008
Super Lawyer
Super Lawyers
2009
Super Lawyer
Super Lawyers
2010
Super Lawyer
Super Lawyers
2007
Distinguished
Martindale-Hubbell
2016
Super Lawyer
Super Lawyers
2015
Super Lawyer
Super Lawyers
2011

Associations

Member
Somerset County Bar Association
1992 - Present
Member
New Jersey State Bar
1984 - Present
Member
Morris County Bar Association
2000 - Present
Fellow in Good Standing
American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers
2013 - Present
Member
Union County Bar Association
1996 - Present
Member
American Socity of Legal Advocates
2015 - Present

Reviews


RATED 5.0

Aug 7, 2025Googlevia Google

NeeMha Crystal

"Just hired Michael Fleres and so far he’s already given me more options than my last lawyer even told me were possible. I have a high conflict case and had trouble finding someone who actually took the time to listen until I reached out to this law firm. Consultation was free and by the time it was over I felt relieved that someone who knew what they were doing was going to handle my case the right way this time. I had filed the wrong application trying to represent myself and he is working on helping me fix that. So let them file, don’t file yourself. I don’t understand laws so it’s been a headache trying to get things right but I could tell this lawyer genuinely wants to. People in my circle had been begging me to find another lawyer and not give up and I’m glad I did because I was 2 seconds away from losing all hope until I spoke with this attorney. I’m excited that things will finally be made right. I know other lawyers are listed to handle high conflict cases with coercive control and harassment but this man here is the real deal. These lawyers will listen to you and fight for you. Tell them the truth and let them do the rest. Call them you won’t regret it!!!!!"

RATED 5.0

Jul 27, 2025Googlevia Google

Maryana I

"I highly recommend ​Townsend, Tomaio & Newmark law firm for anyone facing a difficult case. Mine was a post-dissolution case. I found them through Avvo.com and was impressed by Laurie's free advice. They did not disappoint. They were exceptionally professional and not only had my back every step of the way, but most importantly, they truly fought for the best interests of our children. They listened patiently to all my grievances and turned them into clear, persuasive legal arguments that made a real difference — enough for a judge to care and address the issues that mattered most. When my ex took the defense too far into unnecessary territory, the firm worked closely with me to suggest smart, money-saving strategies that protected my time and resources. In the end, they not only won most points in my case but also defeated a series of appeals my ex filed. While every situation is unique, I can say with absolute certainty that I would hire this firm again without hesitation. Nicole represented me through most of this long journey, and she is an absolute diamond — knowledgeable, steady, and genuinely dedicated. I’m so grateful for her, Grace, and the entire team. Laurie, thank you for your leadership and guidance!"

RATED 1.0

Jul 20, 2025Googlevia Google

Luke Mcnicholas

"If you wanna over pay for a lawyer this is the place to use."

RATED 1.0

Jul 20, 2025Googlevia Google

Anurag Dave

"Can I give less then 1 star? Worst law firm in NJ, forget about the associate attorney one of the owner Paul is terrible also. Took my 40% retainer money without doing single work. One of the owner sending rude email stating stop, enough this are the treatment you will receive from your attorney. So better find some other firm if you don’t want to waste time and money."

RATED 5.0

Aug 10, 2024Googlevia Google

Karen P

"I have been extremely pleased with the professionalism of this firm, and highly recommend Dominic Tomaio and his team to handle any complicated, time consuming divorce with an extremely difficult spouse."