Kirk C.  Stange

Kirk C. Stange

Google Rating

3.8(76 reviews)

  • (855) 709-8526, (855) 947-4042, (855) 771-1494, (636) 481-3597, (866) 505-6041, (855) 695-2323, (855) 709-8508, (855) 613-0769, (855) 456-7587, (855) 568-1519, (855) 653-0966
  • contoso@example.com, contoso@example.com, contoso@example.com, contoso@example.com, contoso@example.com, contoso@example.com, contoso@example.com, contoso@example.com, contoso@example.com, contoso@example.com

About:

If you are going through a divorce or family law matter, it can feel like your whole life is hanging in the balance. Not knowing what will happen to you or your family can be overwhelming. To help clients with divorce and family law matters in their time of need, Stange Law Firm, PC has limited its practice to divorce and family law matters. For your convenience, we have offices in multiple states. We also respond to all phone calls and emails from clients left before 5 pm the same business day. We also give clients 24/7 access to their file online. Whatever the family law issue, we are here to help you rebuild your life. To schedule your consultation, call us today at 855-805-0595. *The choice of a lawyer is an important decision that should not be based solely upon advertisements. Kirk Stange is responsible for the content. Principal place of business 120 South Central Ave, Suite 450, Clayton, MO 63105. Neither the Supreme Court of Missouri/Illinois/Kansas nor The Missouri/Illinois/Kansas Bar reviews or approves certifying organizations or specialist designations. The information you obtain at this site is not, nor is it intended to be legal advice. You should consult an attorney for advice regarding your individual situation. Mr. Stange is not taking new cases at the present time, but other lawyers at the firm are taking new cases. We invite you to contact us and welcome your calls, letters, and electronic mail. Contacting us does not create an attorney-client relationship. Please do not send any confidential information to us until such time as an attorney-client relationship has been established. Past results afford no guarantee of future results and every case is different and must be judged on its own merits. Stange Law Firm, PC Founding Partner Kirk Stange is licensed in Missouri, Illinois and Kansas.* View More ›

DVLawyers AI Summary:

Stange Law Firm, PC specializes in collaborative divorce and family law, focusing on helping families navigate the often challenging process of divorce amicably and outside of the courtroom. They emphasize a collaborative approach, where both parties work together with trained attorneys and neutral professionals, such as divorce coaches and financial advisers, to reach mutually agreeable settlements. This method can be particularly beneficial for individuals seeking to maintain a co-parenting relationship post-divorce, as it encourages honest communication and transparency. The tone of the firm’s content reflects a supportive and empathetic approach, recognizing that divorce can be an emotionally taxing experience. Their emphasis on collaboration suggests an understanding that many survivors of domestic abuse may prefer to resolve issues amicably rather than face the potential confrontations of court proceedings. The firm appears to be trauma-informed, acknowledging the importance of honesty and respect during a process that can often be fraught with tension and conflict. For survivors of domestic violence, it’s important to carefully consider whether the collaborative divorce process is appropriate given their specific circumstances. While Stange Law Firm provides a safe environment for negotiation, it may not be suitable for every survivor, especially if there is a power imbalance or if one party is not fully transparent. If you're seeking a lawyer who understands the complexities of family law while prioritizing cooperation and less adversarial outcomes, this firm could be a good fit, but it’s essential to discuss your unique situation in detail to ensure that collaboration is a safe and viable option for you.

Jurisdiction:Illinois (Since 2011); Kansas (Since 2008); Missouri (Since 2000)

Practice Area

Family Law

Handles divorce, custody, parenting time, and support with DV-informed safety planning, temporary orders, safe exchanges, discovery protections, and long-term financial stability.

Languages

English

Fees

No Free Consultation

Education

B.A.
Fontbonne University
1997
University of Missouri
2000

Awards

Top 100 Lawyers, Matrimonial and Family Law
The National Advocates

Top 100 Lawyers, Matrimonial and Family Law - The National Advocates (2017)

2017
Super Lawyer Rising Star
Missouri and Kansas Super Lawyers

Super Lawyer Rising Star - Missouri and Kansas Super Lawyers (2014)

2014
America's Top Attorneys
The American Legal Institute

America's Top Attorneys - The American Legal Institute (2016)

2016
Top One Percent
The National Association of Distinguished Counsel

Top One Percent - The National Association of Distinguished Counsel (2017)

2017
Top 10 Family Law Attorney in Missouri
National Academy of Family Law Attorneys

Top 10 Family Law Attorney in Missouri - National Academy of Family Law Attorneys (2017)

2017
Best Attorneys of America
Lifetime Charter Member - Rue Ratings'

Best Attorneys of America - Lifetime Charter Member - Rue Ratings' ()

10 Best Family Law Attorneys in Missouri for Client Satisfaction
American Institute of Family Law Attorneys

10 Best Family Law Attorneys in Missouri for Client Satisfaction - American Institute of Family Law Attorneys (2017)

2017
Lead Counsel Rated For Divorce/Family Law
Lead Counsel

Lead Counsel Rated For Divorce/Family Law - Lead Counsel (2017)

2017
American Academy of Trial Attorneys
National Academy of Jurisprudence

American Academy of Trial Attorneys - National Academy of Jurisprudence (2017)

2017
AVVO Superb 10.0/10.0 Rating
Avvo

AVVO Superb 10.0/10.0 Rating - Avvo ()

Super Lawyers for Family Law
Missouri and Kansas Super Lawyers

Super Lawyers for Family Law - Missouri and Kansas Super Lawyers (2021)

2021
Top 100 Family Lawyers in Missouri
The American Society of Legal Advocates

Top 100 Family Lawyers in Missouri - The American Society of Legal Advocates (2017)

2017
Top 100 Trial Lawyers
The National Trial Lawyers

Top 100 Trial Lawyers - The National Trial Lawyers (2017)

2017

Associations

Member
National Leadership Council at Maryville University
2017 - Present
Member
Missouri State Bar
2000 - Present
Board of Directors
Mid-County YMCA
2021 - Present
Advisory Council
Kids Rock Cancer
2013 - Present
Member
Kansas Bar
2008 - Present
Member
Illinois Bar
2011 - Present
Adjunct Professor
Emory University School of Law
2016 - Present
Board of Directors
Missouri Collaborative Institute
2017 - Present

Reviews


RATED 5.0

Sep 25, 2025Googlevia Google

Bill Reinholz

RATED 5.0

Sep 18, 2025Googlevia Google

David Jackson

"I highly recommend this firm for any family law matters. Keith Fuller and Gerren Banks were outstanding partners throughout the process; consistently responsive, accessible, and proactive in guiding me through each step. I will continue to rely on them as trusted legal advisors for any future needs."

RATED 5.0

Sep 18, 2025Googlevia Google

Jamie Stubbs

"My family and I highly recommend Keith Fuller and Gerren Banks. Our experience with both Keith and Gerren was excellent. They did a phenomenal job communicating with us as well as executing every task on our behalf effectively. We would absolutely use them again if ever needed."

RATED 5.0

Sep 11, 2025Googlevia Google

Anita Kirkley

"very happy with the firm. very caring and helpful. making a great process. Jordan.Barry is awesome and staff."

RATED 5.0

Sep 2, 2025Googlevia Google

John Goddard

"Responsive and detailed work for our will"

RATED 1.0

Sep 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Daniel Derr

"Worthless office ... 13,000+ and only 1 court date"

RATED 5.0

Sep 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Alexander Clarkson

"Grace Okorocha and her assistant Erica were amazing! They guided me through a very difficult time of my life with professionalism, genuine care and compassion. I'm truly grateful .highly recommend!"

RATED 5.0

Aug 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Majick Man

"I have been very impressed by the technology and advice of Stange Law Firm, PC and their representation of me in the cases of family and civil law that they have and are"

RATED 2.0

Aug 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Verla Shaffer

"DO NOT USE this law firm they will have multiple mettings a month within themselves just to rack up the charges on your bill even after asking them to limit the meetings to once a month very over priced on the fees per hour won't let you tell them no when you tell them you want to settle your case they keep going then you have to pay a deposit of 3,000 and keep on adding things to the fees making g you keep paying them money I ended up with owing more money and got nothing out of the deal except owing more money make sure you go somewhere else for your business"

RATED 1.0

Aug 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Gena Jones

"Horrible to say the least. Just incredibly horrible and devastating. Lost almost everything."

RATED 1.0

Aug 2, 2025Googlevia Google

cshepard424

"My lawyer just disappeared from the firm with no forwarding information and I can’t get them to refund my retainer so that I can get a new lawyer. It’s incredibly hard to get ahold of an actual person. It’s been a horribly frustrating situation."

RATED 5.0

Aug 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Autumn Andreoni

"Highly recommend Khalil Rozell out of the Chicago branch for all family matters!"

RATED 1.0

Aug 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Tim Lavear

"The Arnold office took my money and gave me no help..the attorney did not answer one question that I hired them for."

RATED 5.0

Jul 2, 2025Googlevia Google

TTH7001

"As the case is ongoing, I am happy with attorney “Khalil Rozell” as he is very prompt to handle my case and let me full informed as the case is ongoing."

RATED 1.0

Jul 2, 2025Googlevia Google

k k

"Do NOT HIRE THIS FIRM!! No matter what!!! This law firm is an absolute disgrace. Our lawyer did not file ANY of the paperwork that he agreed to. The other lawyer we were against informed us that she hadn’t received any paperwork almost the entire time The charges were OUTRAGEOUS for absolutely NOTHING!! We had no legal counsel hardly during a whole year case. I don’t know how this company hasn’t been reported or shut down. Multi state horrible reviews, terrible lawyers and a money scam. Got further in one court date with zero representation than we got in like 4 court dates. A JOKE DO NOT HIRE THIS COMPANY"

RATED 5.0

Jul 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Robert See

RATED 5.0

Jul 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Kristin

"I had a great experience working with Khalil. He was extremely communicative and thorough throughout the entire process. He took the time to explain everything clearly, kept me updated regularly, and made sure I felt supported and informed every step of the way. I truly appreciated his professionalism and dedication to my case. Highly recommend!"

RATED 5.0

Jul 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Jayla Munroe

"Olivia Mitchell has excellent legal advice!! I enjoyed my consultation she was easy to talk to!"

RATED 5.0

Jul 2, 2025Googlevia Google

vonda davis

RATED 5.0

Jul 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Chuck Dotson

RATED 1.0

Jun 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Andy Martello

"Still awaiting my belongings from a divorce. The other party lied (with proof) and I have spent thousands of $$$ for poor representation. Our legal system is a scam"

RATED 4.0

Jun 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Marcus Madden

"Patrick Paradise was able to represent me on short notice and responded promptly to all of my questions. As my case progresses, I will continue to share updates and reviews about my experience with Stange Law Firm."

RATED 5.0

Jun 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Tammy Fisher

"Aaron was professional and helpful and guided me through my divorce. We avoided going to trial, so, I'd say it was successful."

RATED 1.0

Jun 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Jon C

"Horrid; not even a last resort. Extremely overpriced and they only care about how much they can bill you. They don't even know family law. Go anywhere else."

RATED 5.0

Jun 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Teri Hoof

RATED 1.0

Jun 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Cassie Nicole

RATED 1.0

Jun 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Charlie Brandkamp

"I used them for my divorce. By the time it was said and done, I had had 3 different attorneys. Was over billed on multiple occasions. On numerous occasions they came to court ill prepared. And when I tried to talk to them on the phone about billing, the refused to because I had my mother on the call who had helped me along the way. I would never use them if I were you. They are crooks."

RATED 5.0

Jun 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Shanell Powell

"Stange Law keeps you informed. I love their tracker system. They had documents I have never seen before and reports that I dreaded to get or pay for."

RATED 1.0

Jun 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Brandon Priest

"Terrible firm. The amount they charged and what was delivered was inexcusable and robbery. Wound up receiving new counsel and so glad I did. Again cannot stress this enough place is not worth it and they will take advantage of you."

RATED 5.0

Jun 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Kyle Dunfee

"Kim Kessinger has always been honest and up front. Makes it super easy to work through any problem. I would definitely recommend her to anyone needing a good lawyer."

RATED 5.0

Jun 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Dave Cato

RATED 1.0

May 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Denson Family Outdoors

"I do not recommend this law firm at all. They will charge you ridiculous fees for minimum work completed. I started, did not even get past the first 2 weeks and this law firm charged my credit card without my authorization or knowledge of doing so a total of $17,384 in 16 days! Stay far away from them, they will not give you detailed billing and when you are supposed to be refunded it’s not the right amount. I’m sure the will respond on here and say, due to client confidentiality they cannot respond however they take their clients very seriously. Sure you do, how else would you be able to charge ridiculous amounts. Go to their BBB page and read the reviews as well. I am sadly not the only one that was taken by them. I wish I would have looked there first however I did not."

RATED 5.0

May 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Rev. Melody Smith

"Easy to maneuver the website."

RATED 5.0

May 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Eve S

"Khalil Rosell is a wonderful lawyer. He was very helpful and professional as we navigated the process for adoption of my twins by my husband. We are very grateful for his assistance."

RATED 5.0

May 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Austin Tiffany

"Stange law firm provided a very professional and confident environment to navigate the legal matters I was facing. I was assigned to attorney Aaron Bruns who represented me very well and offered good advice for the decisions I had to make. I highly recommend their services."

RATED 5.0

Apr 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Trumayne Scott

"I’m here to say Wilson Ellis is a great attorney! He has been very productive, professional, knowledgeable, and punctual with his work on my child custody case! I’d recommend him to any and everyone in the area looking for a top notch attorney. Thank you for all your hard work!!! If you all see this spread the word of his hard work."

RATED 5.0

Mar 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Lisa Jordan

"This firm is amazing! They were able to step in for me at the last minute and I am so grateful. Diane Barker is compassionate and knowledgeable, and continues to fight on my behalf when others told me it was a losing battle. She has proven them wrong!"

RATED 5.0

Mar 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Tracy Berger

RATED 1.0

Feb 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Bob Ciesla

"I was helping an elderly lady that needed legal help. I provided this firm a full write up of the situation. They decided to move ahead with the call and charged $100. She asked to have me attend the call and the attorney refused. This poor lady has serious medical issues, is being verbally abused by her family. The attorney told this elderly lady that they are a small lawfirm. That is not true. The have not returned the $100. I am not sure if they only target high net worth individuals, but I would not recommend them as a first choice when looking for representation."

RATED 5.0

Feb 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Kenny Fountain

"Diane Barker was absolutely amazing. Her ability to handle my disability while taking on this case is amazing. Her aptitude for understanding and having the right questions is just as amazing. I appreciate her diligence and respect through the whole process."

RATED 1.0

Jan 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Jasmine King

"Paid 22k for a divorce where my lawyer had no idea what was going on. Had to get information about upcoming court dates from my ex-husband because my lawyer did not know how to attend. The final documents were all worded in his favor. Complete waste of money!"

RATED 1.0

Jan 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Cara Cathcart

"Terrible. Did nothing for me in a multi state custodial despute. Would send me little bills for NOTHING and charge me. Total SCAM. Stay away!!! Huge lawyer group based out of state that will steal any desperate Mother's money. Hasn't been my lawyer in 5 years/case is closed. STILL sending me multiple spam emails and day stating I owe money to the trust account. BBB needs to look into this company."

RATED 1.0

Jan 2, 2025Googlevia Google

Aimee Meyer

"I strongly advise exercising caution when considering representation from Keith Fuller and Stange Law Firm. My experience has been disappointing, characterized by unprofessional conduct and excessive fees without tangible results. I retained Keith on September 23, 2024, with a preliminary court hearing set for September 30. He assured me that he could manage the case effectively and would be adequately prepared by the time of the hearing. Despite having all necessary documentation provided at the outset, Keith showed up to court without any of the materials and appeared unprepared. My retainer of $5,000 was completely exhausted within a week, raising concerns about the handling of my case. Furthermore, he was expected to file a substitution of counsel on September 30, but my previous attorney informed me on November 21 that this had not been completed, resulting in additional fees for services that Keith was supposed to provide. Efforts to reach an agreement with the opposing party were undermined by Keith; he claimed he had not received the information I had clearly relayed both verbally and in writing. I retain copies of our correspondence outlining my proposals. Instead of pursuing my suggestions, Keith submitted an entirely different offer to the opposing party and, disconcertingly, stated that he did not care about my preferences. This not only prolonged the case but also led to unnecessary expenses. After voicing my concerns, Keith withdrew from my case just a week before trial. Although I had supplied him with supporting documents, he has failed to return these materials to either my attorney or myself. Instead, I received a USB drive containing none of the crucial documents initially provided. He charged for the upload of these records but is unable to furnish them now. Ultimately, I have paid a total of approximately $13,000 in less than a month—$5,000 for a retainer and additional charges exceeding $7000—only to find myself in a worse position than before. Keith's approach was discouraging, and he did not demonstrate a commitment to my interests. His communication after withdrawing indicated an inability to prepare for the first hearing, a fact that should have been disclosed in our initial meeting. Had I known this potential issue upfront, I would have considered other options for representation. I believe it is justified to request a refund of my retainer from Stange Law Firm, as Keith’s actions did not align with the expectations he set during our initial discussions. His charges seemed excessive, and the anticipated costs were initially projected to be around $7,000 to $9,000. I plan to file a complaint with the Missouri Bar regarding this matter. Moreover, previous discussions with the firm prior to Keith's withdrawal yielded no meaningful resolutions, merely justifications for his shortcomings."

RATED 1.0

Dec 2, 2024Googlevia Google

Vernon VanWaters

"Do not use this firm. My attorney had no idea why she was even there. While we were in the court house, she leaned over and asked me this. After confronting this situation with her supervisor, she lies to him and stated she never said this and then dropped my case. I wasted my complete retainer. This firm is dishonest, and they will lie to steal your money. Come to find out they are known for this kind of conduct and have a swinging door when it comes to retaining attorneys. Again, if you want to give someone your money, I would choose a charity verse giving this firm anything. This business needs to be shut down for their lack of professionalism, along with other issues. I know that after I leave this review, they will come on here to give a ridiculous explanation as to why, but nothing states is correct or the truth. This firm is not honest at all and will steal your money while giving you a false sense of hope."

RATED 5.0

Nov 2, 2024Googlevia Google

Jordan Nephew

"Do you guys provide hider classes and like one on one tutoring because I need to get my g.e.d and I just want to find a place that does that"

RATED 5.0

Oct 2, 2024Googlevia Google

Brianna Koehler

RATED 1.0

Oct 2, 2024Googlevia Google

Donald DeShone

"DO NOT USE! I hired an attorney out of the Troy location. But they assigned me an attorney out of the Arnold location, I was charged $700 in attorney fees just for him to drive to court every month. I was told I had to hire a 2nd attorney in the case. Another $2500 retainer. This attorney was out of Washington, Missouri, and he used all of my retainer fee just to show up to the first court date for the judge to dismiss it in the attorney never to say one word. my first attorney quit the law firm and moved to Texas and I was assigned another new attorney which I was charged for him to review all my case file. in total, I have spent over $14,000 at 6 court dates for nothing at all to happen. The law firm constantly put my money into the wrong trust account, which causes me to pay interest on my bill. Customer care is horrible, I highly recommend finding counsel somewhere else, and not using Stange law firm"

RATED 5.0

Oct 2, 2024Googlevia Google

Beth Bryant

"Keith Fuller with Stange Law Firm is a “grade A”, top notch attorney! He not only handled my legal matter in the most efficient manner but also kept me informed every step of the way! I have complete trust and confidence in Keith and would highly recommend him!"

RATED 5.0

Oct 2, 2024Googlevia Google

Leonila Salinas

"Chad Hager represented me in a complex custody case from January to November of this year and was a consummate professional. I had retained a different lawyer a year prior from another law firm and they did nothing but waste my time and take my money. But Chad at Stange was nothing like that. Chad’s expertise made me confident I had made the right choice. He is concise, quick to respond, and strategic in his work. Very glad we chose him to help us navigate our situation, I am now free to live a life safe and happy with my child, free from our harmful past. Thank you, Chad and Stange!"

RATED 5.0

Oct 2, 2023Googlevia Google

Jeremy Littrell

"They are very on top of things. I give them 2 thumbs up for service and satisfaction!!!!"

RATED 5.0

Oct 2, 2022Googlevia Google

Dave Cooper

"Don't listen to the one an two star reviews. I was in a multi state divorce fight, this firm handled the Missouri side of it. I could call, text, email anytime I had a question an I would get a response back in most cases within minutes. They are professional, friendly and believe it or not speedy. Chad ty so much!"

RATED 5.0

Oct 2, 2022Googlevia Google

Dustin Houseman

"I can’t think of a single thing I didn’t like about these guys. All around incredible experience considering my situation!"

RATED 4.0

Oct 2, 2021Googlevia Google

Misty Smithey

"They got me my overdue win on a case out of the normal without going to trial. I did have enough evidence on my side to prevent that anyhow. Biggest downfall was the cost and having 3 different lawyers over the course of 10 months. However, each of the lawyers I had were AMAZING to say the least. Big thank you to every single one of them, Danielle Frazier, Craig Goza, and last but certainly not least Matthew Pool. They each played significant roles in my case, were extremely hard working, willing to explain things I didn’t understand and always kept me up to date. Anyways, if you have the funds this law firm will provide you with the best lawyers in the field of family law. I’m so happy all of this is over! Thanks again to Matthew Pool for getting me to the finish line."

RATED 1.0

Oct 2, 2021Googlevia Google

aaron hults

"I originally met with James Ahearn at the Clayton office for my consultation. I was very impressed with James and happy with that meeting, however James was not assigned my case. Instead I was assigned to Craig Goza in the Ellisville office, 45 minutes away from where I live. While Craig has been very passionate and supportive of me and my family goals, I have been disappointed with the process. It took close to 3 months for my initial motion to be filed. During that time and since then, a lot of expensive research and consulting has been done, but we just now have possible steps to get me towards a settlement, seven months and tens of thousands of dollars later. We're closing in on a year with nothing resolved, so this review is subject to change. Update 02/28/21: Assigned a new attorney and worse off than I was before."

RATED 1.0

Oct 2, 2020Googlevia Google

Steve Rasure

"I hired Craig to help me with a family matter. I did an initial consultation with the firm and agreed to have them represent me. Once I signed the paperwork I was assigned Craig. I had to start over from the beginning, retelling my background story and why I needed help. It felt like Craig was more concerned with billing me hours versus helping me. I spent thousands of dollars with no resolution or help. It was a big waste of money. I did not have a good experience with the firm or Craig. Hire someone else."

Kirk C. Stange - Domestic Violence Lawyer | DVLawyers | DV Lawyers